Well, I totally understand it. I have already left instructions that the exBFF and The Nameless One are to be tossed out if they
show up to anything regarding me when I pass. (wake, funeral, etc). I don't care if they cause a ruckus. I know they will. Those two are such lowlifes that they will open their ugly big mouths. They can't keep their hateful
feelings to themselves.
The Nameless One created a ruckus at the funeral home during a private viewing (granted by the family) of my dad. Started arguing
with the employees of the funeral home.
The exBFF started yelling in the entrance of the CHURCH at my mother-in-law's sister at my mother-in-law's service. She also called
me on the phone the day after my father's funeral and trashed him - my father, who liked and respected her.
The exBFF and The Nameless One - the adopted out one who has caused much trouble for her birth family and her adopted
family are both garbage and should be tossed out as such.