Forbidden Family-the lies by Doris Sippel are set straight here by Ruth Sippel Pace (LadyMoondancer)
Exposing the lies Doris Sippel/Joan Wheeler spreads about her birth family ---- ---- -If someone can tell lies about me, I can tell the truth about me. -- This blog is also about anything and everything that interests me.
Saturday, May 9, 2026
Tuesday, April 7, 2026
Never let the snakes back in your life.
Both Joan/Doris and the exBFF called my job to get me fired. And both tried to harm my character and relationships. I will NEVER let them in my life again. I don't care if they become destitute. The very act of calling my job jeopardized my earnings at the time, my pension, and my future Social Security payments. I was paying a mortgage (with my husband) when they were doing this. They didn't care if I lost my income and wouldn't be able to pay my house payments. They didn't care that I and my husband would lose our home.
THEY DIDN'T CARE. So - I DON'T CARE ABOUT THEM.
Whatever problems they encounter in life - be it financial, health, housing, food, mental well-being ---- I WILL NOT CARE.
Saturday, April 4, 2026
If they had left me alone, I would not have retaliated.
I have never said I was perfect. I have done some stupid things in my life. I have done a couple of rotten things in my life. The rotten things I did were reactions to people repeatedly fucking with me after I told them repeatedly to leave me alone. Their act of calling my job with lies to get me fired was the impetus of my actions. I will not debate whether that was right or wrong. I did what I did and that's that.
Thursday, February 26, 2026
I AM NOBODY'S DOORMAT
As an empath, I understood both Joan/Doris and the exBFF were hurting.
As a person, I didn't understand why they went out of their way to hurt me.
I never said I was perfect - and anything I did was actually in response to THEIR MISDEEDS.
They know, even if they won't admit it, that what they did was wrong.
And for years I put up with their shit. Then I fought back. I set up boundaries. Healthy boundaries - like not wanting to be treated with disrespect. But they wouldn't respect my boundaries - so I refused to be their doormat.
I AM NOBODY'S DOORMAT.
Wednesday, February 25, 2026
Friday, January 2, 2026
Tuesday, December 30, 2025
When an empath finally reaches their limit with a narcissist - IT'S DONE.
Both Joan/Doris and the exBFF are OUT of my life and will NEVER be in it again.







