To my devoted readers who hide behind proxy URLs

 I want to say hello to my devoted readers.

The past few weeks the stats on this blog have been quite interesting. It seems I have several loyal readers from France and Singapore. (yeah right).

In the past, when my sister and I had our main blogs, we took every page of Joan/Doris’ lying book and refuted every lie she told about us and our family. And there were plenty of lies. And I had the proof of the lies.

One blatant lie - which she told in her book, she said that she had taken me court for harassment. And then I was given a one-year order of protection - that I had been ordered to stay away from her for one year.

Yes, we were in court. Yes, I was told by the judge to stay away from her. Yes it was in the form of an order of protection. No, it was not for one year, it was for six months. And I scanned the court document that clearly said ‘six months.’

Why did Joan/Doris lie about the duration of the document? Because that is what she does - she lies about EVERYTHING. It was such a stupid lie. And why bother to lie? She made her point, that she got an order of protection against me. (and one day, when I feel like it, I will tell on this new blog of mind, how I was railroaded in court and got that order of protection against me). So I ask again? Why bother to lie? Just fucking tell the damn truth.

Anyway, her book which was published by a ‘vanity press’ - that is you pay for the book to be published - has a standard contract that all their ‘authors’ sign - and if you are saying that your book is ‘true and factual’ and you sign that contract as such - well, you better be true and factual in what you put in that book. And Joan/Doris was not.

There were a ton of lies in her book, but I sent proof of only a smidgen of her lies to the publisher - and the proof I sent them? Copies of the actual court and police documents. AND, most importantly, a copy of the order of protection, with my signature, that clearly stated that the order of protection was for SIX MONTHS, not for one year. The result? The publisher’s legal team declared that Joan/Doris had violated the contract she signed and pulled her book from publication.

Words matter people. The words that come out of your mouth and what you write MATTER. Joan/Doris’ book came out in November 2009 and it was pulled from publication in May 2010. Joan/Doris found out the hard way that it is important to tell the truth.

There is no such thing as ‘alternate’ facts as Trump’s buddy Kellyanne Conway said once - facts are FACTS. Two plus two will always equal four, no matter how many times you say it equals five.

And the truth will come out ALL THE TIME.

Right now, our country is going through a crisis in democracy. I won’t go all in about it - only to say that there are some people, no matter how stupid a lie sounds, will always believe the lies. And we are seeing this in the way weak-minded people willingly believe garbage that comes out of Trump’s mouth. Even when those lies are proven false by other words that come out of his mouth or his actions make a liar out of him.

There are some people out there that will tell you that the sky is brown with bright red clouds - when it is clear that it is blue with white clouds. Taking in consideration they don’t have problems with their retinas and color perceptions of their brain - these people will NOT believe the truth even when it slaps them in the face. These people are called neurotics. They ‘know’ two plus two equals four, but they so desperately WANT it to equal five, they will keep saying the answer is five - over and over for years.

And this is the problem with Joan/Doris. She knows the truth of things, but desperately wants her reality to be something else. AND Joan is evil. She will do things to people who buck against her reality - even cause trouble, harass and stalk them.

Joan/Doris is full of anger - anger because she was given up for adoption after our mother died. She and other adoptees who are angry because they were given up for adoption like to call themselves ‘angry adoptees.’

These ‘angry adoptees’ are just like Trump’s brain-dead followers. No matter how many times they ‘see’ and ‘know’ two plus two equals four - they WANT two plus two to equal five. And they will fight you when you tell them it ain’t never gonna be five.

Joan/Doris hooked up with a bunch of these angry adoptees on various websites they had. And one day in February 2010, she was on one of their sites and told them to go to my original blog and harass me. I got around 200 (I forget the actual number) hits on my blog and many obscene comments.

The angry adoptees like to do this. I have seen many posts by them ‘rounding up the troops’ to go to various pro-adoption websites and spam them with nasty comments. Or when they see a newspaper article anywhere - that is pro-adoption, they put the call out to the troops to spam the newspaper or the author.

In this way, they are like the MAGAts - Donald Trump’s stupid brain-dead followers that think Trump is ‘god’ and when he tells them to do something - even when it is wrong - they willingly and blindly follow their leader and do crazy, stupid, and sometimes hateful things. Like storm the Capitol building.

One tactic the angry adoptees use when they spam websites and people they don’t agree with? They use proxy URLs. This way, their bullshit can’t be traced back to them.

How do I know this? One time, I saw Joan/Doris herself putting a message out on a message board about a website to spam and her saying ‘be sure to use one of our proxy URLs.’

Some of the proxy sites are of URLs from countries around the world. My original blog’s stats would register hits from several countries around the world. People who are too cowardly to show who they really are and hide behind fake names and fake webpages. They have no honor or integrity. 

This blog, has been registering devoted readers supposedly from Singapore, and France. I guarantee that the hits from Singapore and France are coming from proxy-fake URLs.

I don’t care. The purpose of this blog is for me to say what is on my mind, and to be read by people.

So use whatever way you want to get here and read. One thing you will NOT be able to do is leave a comment - because I know how the angry adoptees are - they will want to leave nasty comments - that’s all they know how to do. And I refuse to allow anyone to abuse me by leaving nasty stupid comments.

Don’t like that? Too bad. My blog, my rules. Dig or split.

Communications Officer Betty Cooper is monitoring all frequencies and keeping tabs on all you fakers.

About the recent coward comments I received on this blog.

No comments will be accepted that do not have names attached to them. If you can't put your name to what you say -- why should I post them, let alone read them? Comments show up in my email. If I see at the beginning of the email "Comment by 'unknown' -- I simply check off the box 'delete' and it's done. The body of the comment isn't even read. Don't like that? Too bad. I am under NO obligation to read or publish anything. 

I did read the first cowardly comment that I received yesterday, and answered it in this post:

An attack by a COWARD -- trying to tell me that I'm a liar.

https://ladymoondancersrealm.blogspot.com/2019/08/an-attack-by-coward-trying-to-tell-me.html

After I composed and posted that, I went back to my email, deleted that abusive comment, and deleted a second comment that they wrote -- and it was deleted UNREAD. And a third one, signed "Typical" was deleted, UNREAD. Again, I am under NO obligation to read or publish crap sent to me.

If you believe your words, if you are passionate about what you have to say, your position on something, there is no need to hide. If you lack the courage to speak plainly and intelligently don't even waste my time. Because you've already made up your mind and I've heard it all before. From angry adoptees who want to shove their opinions down mine and everyone else's throats. With no thought of all of any kind of debate. With TYPICAL 'angry adoptees' it's 'their way or no way.' -- And I'm not even talking about the whys or causes or abuses of the institution of adoption. I am well aware of legitimate concerns of adoptees, their separation from their birth family, loss of identity, falsified birth certificates, etc. This blog has nothing to do with any of that. And don't even bother to lecture me to 'get educated.' I did all that - I researched it, I got educated way back in the 70's.

Any person coming here to lecture me about my relationship with Joan/Doris and to leave abusive comments are only proving my point in post "https://ladymoondancersrealm.blogspot.com/2019/08/suffering-from-post-adoption-wounds.html" wherein I say: "Someone lies to you, steals from you - you have every right to tell that person to go away -- but, some adoptees think you have to put up with that crap. Simply because they were 'adopted' as if it's some kind of badge. "Here, I got this 'adoptee badge' that gives me the right to walk all over you." Oh hell no baby. You lie to me, steal from me, treat me like crap -- I don't give a shit if you're adopted or not, you will be served your walking papers. Being an adoptee and having 'wounds' does not give one the right to step on and abuse other people."

I always got a laugh at the hypocrisy of these TYPICAL 'angry adoptees' when I would read their blogs, comments, on the internet about them standing up for themselves and not allowing anyone to abuse them. But they reserve the right to abuse others, and seem to feel that others MUST take that abuse simply because the abuser IS an adoptee.

If I were to make a blogpost about a person who is not related to me, let's call her 'Susie Smith.' Susie is an acquaintance, and comes to my house with a friend of mine. Susie goes to my bathroom and steals some of my makeup. Then a few days later she is telling people crap about me. I have every right to call Susie out on her abusive behavior -- and people would applaud me for it. "Way to go Ruth, don't take crap from her. Don't allow anyone to walk over you."

Now let's change the scenario. Susie is actually my birth sister, who was adopted out of our family, but we were reunited and she was welcomed by me with open arms and heart. And Susie goes into my bathroom and steals some makeup and then goes around talking shit about me. According to these TYPICAL 'angry adoptees' things have changed. I'm now supposed to shut my mouth and accept this person walking all over me. Not a chance baby. -- and if you are coming to this blog with that kind of crap in your head -- you've proven my point that I put forth in my blog post. And no amount of arguing with me is going to make me accept someone treating me like a doormat. I will NOT allow Joan/Doris to treat me like a doormat, simply because she was adopted, and I will NOT allow people coming to this blog and writing idiotic comments to treat me like a doormat. Don't like that? Too bad. Go Away if you don't like what's written here.

An attack by a COWARD -- trying to tell me that I'm a liar.

especially when that 'lecture' is posted by someone who was too COWARDLY to leave their name. 

sooo -- some COWARD left a comment to my last post -- I will not publish it -- but this person dared to call ME a liar -- this person obviously went to my facebook page to gather  information. And accused me of lying when I say that my husband was a Navy Seal in Vietnam. I would publish my husbands DT214 form online except that it contains personal information. Why would I lie on facebook about something like that? My husband's brother and other immediate and extended family members (and in-laws of my brother in law) are friends of mine on facebook. AND three members of that family (my brother in law's inlaws) worked with me at my job -- one from the late 70's. You think that if I lied about my husband that any one of them wouldn't say "What the fuck Ruth?" oh my stars! how fucking stupid can one COWARDLY person be?

Perhaps this person is a filthy dirty racist and can't conceive that a black man was in the Special Forces.

Well, Mr. or Madam COWARD who can't even leave their name -- you accuse me of heaping abuse on my estranged sister -- why don't you ask her of the $700.00 she stole from me? Or the beads she swiped off my mother's wedding dress (that belonged to me) or the false police reports she made against me, or the many phone calls she made to my employer in 1994-95 with lies to get me fired, and again in 2012? In 2012 she even bragged about doing that on the Huffington Post.

Or the time she called child abuse on herself? Yes - she did. She called Child Protective Services, gave MY name as the caller, and proceeded to accuse MY fiance as the person abusing her children.

Really, I'm going to call Child Protective Services, give them my name and name my own fiance as a child molestor. Give me a break.

My old blog had scans of the actual police and court documents about that -- that proved that Joan Wheeler, now known as Doris Sippel, lied to police, the courts about me.

I also scanned handwritten and typed letters (with their envelopes) that Joan Wheeler wrote to my future mother in law telling her garbage about me. AND notes to my fiance (now husband) that he should break up with me.

AND I also scanned a letter that Joan/Doris sent to me stating that my fiance had gotten the next door neighbor pregnant -- when the house was vacant.

I tell you now Mr. or Madam COWARD -- you are an excellent example of what my last post was about -- you think that because you are adopted (I assume you are because you sound like one of Joan/Doris' abusive adoptee buddies) that you can heap abuses on other people and try to get away with it because you wear your sad story of adoption as a badge.

AND furthermore, if an adoptee is proved to be a liar or an abusive person, other wacko adoptees get on board and refuse to admit it. Again, they think that a fellow adoptee HAS that 'I'm an adoptee, so I can abuse people and get away with it" badge.

I say 'wacko' adoptees, because any person who is shown an actual police or court document proving that one adopteed LIED and they refuse to believe it -- they ARE wacko. And from late 2009, when I started my old blog, up to today, when an adoptee comes online and starts to tell me that I'm the liar when they refuse to see the factual truth for themselves, I simply have to just label them as 'wacko.'

Come forth COWARD  - don't be scared to share your name. What are you ashamed of? A hit and run attack with no name attached is BULLSHIT and you therefore are shit.

No never mind -- don't even bother to come forth. Your words are shit -- just like you.