And to that end - I banish forever from my life certain toxic individuals from my life.

It has been 10 years that I have been free from Joan Wheeler aka Doris Michol Sippel (and her various cronies that she recruited to harass me) and the exBFF - Francine M.

If either one of them, or anybody acting on their behalf starts with me, I will immediately notify law enforcement and the local District Attorney of their harassments.

There will be NO 'second chances,' NO self-doubts (should I file charges?) - I WILL ACT IMMEDIATELY.

Francine M. (the exBFF), called my job in 2012 with lies to get me fired. My employer investigated me and exonerated me.

She wrote a horribly insulting public comment on facebook about my husband, calling him a "broke-ass man," took me court, claiming I was harassing her, over a letter of intervention I sent her - wherein I told her to get off the drugs, stop chasing married/attached men, and not to anger my husband because he will defend me.

She whined to the District Attorney that I “threatened” her. So I got hauled into court. While at our first court appearance, she attended it dressed like a two-bit HO. Fighting with her defense team, and was told to leave. As she was leaving, she walked past me, where I was sitting and she threatened to 'beat my ass.'  I raised my hand to summon a bailiff - “EXCUSE ME, SHE JUST THREATENED ME.” They jumped on her and took her OUT of the courtroom - where she began fighting with them and screaming. At that point, my lawyer got off the elevator and told me she was taken bodily to a separate room down the hall. The door was closed - but she could still be heard SCREAMING in the courtroom where I and my husband was. SCREAMING at the top of her lungs like an insane person. She disrupted everything.

She should have been arrested on the spot - but no. And the judge was sympathetic to addicts, and sentenced ME to a one year order of protection. I was ordered to stay away from her, despite the letter I sent to her, which he had in his hands that stated several times that I wanted HER to stay away from ME,

How do I know the judge was sympathetic to addicts? Several months later, he appeared on a local news report and was praised for his help for them - providing them with information for counseling, detox, etc. "They need help," he said. Well, that's all well and good, I agree they need help - HOWEVER THEY SHOULD ALSO BE HELD ACCOUNTABLE FOR ANY CRIMES THEY COMMIT. And calling people's jobs is STALKING AND AGAINST THE LAW. And jeez, doncha' think threatening someone with bodily harm IN A COURTROOM NO LESS, would be a crime? I sure do.

Anyway, I accepted the Order of Protection. In fact, I WELCOMED IT. Because it did what I had been trying to do for a couple of years (2010-2012): TO GET FRANCINE OUT OF MY LIFE!

To my way of thinking, the Order of Protection was two-fold: That I should stay away from her, and SHE should stay away from ME. AND to my mind, even if the Order of Protection was for only one year, for me, it meant FOREVER.

So, in 2012, she calls my job to get me fired, she insults my husband on facebook, she files charges on me, she threatens me with bodily harm. But in March, 2022, she contacts me on Instagram. "I miss you and John." - she wants to be friends with me????

She gets an Order of Protection against someone and 10 years later wants to be friends again? oh fuck her!

I have had 10 years of peace - away from her and Joan. They can both kiss my ass. They are both evil and there is no room in my life for evil people.