Saturday, May 30, 2026

Experiencing trauma does not give you the right to dump on others who did nothing to you.


Both Joan/Doris and the exBFF underwent trauma/hurts. I get it. When the exBFF was hurt - I was one of the few who stood by her side. What did I get in return? Lies, disrespect. THEFT (stole pain pills from my bathroom cabinet). 
Joan/Doris' blog and her libelous book lists her numerous hurts - some real, some exaggerated, some fabricated.
Both these women chose to go out of their way to hurt me. Both of them chose to call my job with lies to get me fired. Each time a call was made to my employer, they checked it out and determined the calls were made to slander me. They checked out my performance on my job and found the calls to be false. They knew I wasn't doing what the lies said.

And that is why - no matter what they try to say or justify what they did - neither of them will be in my life again. 


 

Thursday, May 28, 2026

Burning Bridges Can Be Beautiful


The version of me that tolerated bullshit just because she was my 'sister' or the other she - because she used to be my best friend.
My life is so calm since The Nameless One and the exBFF are out of my life.