I had made some journal entries concerning the exBFF. I will post them here.
Here is one from from my journal - January 2012. I didn’t put down the exact date.
The journal entry:
Then this morning, another witchy friend had posted a Rhyme Cast warning someone fucking with him, so I wrote the following on facebook:
If I have a repeat of early Sunday morn
some broad will wish she'd never been born.
Having previously sent a polite private fb email
this witch felt no need to tell another tale.
4,5,6 telephone calls to this busy (and sick) witch
so I unleashed my anger to the bitch.
The lesson here is clearly told:
with an angry witch, ye should not be so bold.
she hasn't called again. I am seriously thinking of getting the phone number changed if she does.
The background: one Saturday night, approximately 11:30, I was sick with a cold and busy scanning some papers into my computer and my phone rang. It was F. the exBFF. She left a surly message on the answering machine: “Why’d you take me off your facebook?”
Now I had taken her off my facebook in November 2010. And I told her why in an email. I had actually avoided her since 2005, because of her
shenanigans, (told elsewhere in this blog). I bumped into her in a grocery store September 2010, and then went to her house and we a good talk. She said she was aware that she had pushed friends away because of her drug usage.
I hoped our friendship could continue.
Two months later, my 2 older sisters and I were having an email discussion about Social Security and Social Security Disability. We were confused about the difference between the
two. I decided to forward our email to both my one sister’s daughter and the exBFF because both had been on Social Services in the past, and they might know the answers to our questions.
The exBFF got offended and
emailed me back, saying I was accusing her of being a welfare queen. And she lives very well, thank you very much. I explained why I included her in a PRIVATE EMAIL FAMILY discussion, because I considered her FAMILY and my sisters and I were using our PRIVATE email. I went on to explain that after our talk in September, I was hopeful our friendship could continue, but I was wrong. Here it was only 2 months later, and she’s taking things the wrong way, getting angry over nothing, accusing me of something
I had no intention of.
I said to myself, “This isn’t going to work, I’m not going through this nonsense again. She hasn’t changed. She’s still narcissistic and argumentative.”
I told her that in my response to her email. And informed her that I now considered our friendship completely dead and I was removing her
from my facebook. (which I did. I removed her from my friends list, but did not block her - which I wish I had done, because she sent me a couple of very nasty rotten posts on facebook a few months later).
Well, imagine my surprise over a year later, she’s calling me on the phone, demanding to know why I removed her from my facebook!!! (she has memory problems because of her 'self medicating.').
In
the course of next 3 hours, she called 5 more times. I picked up the phone one time and told her to stop calling me, and hung up. After the 4th call, I picked up the phone and said, “I’m reporting you to the phone
company.” and hung up. She called 2 more times. The last time she called I didn’t say anything, I put the receiver on the paper tray of my scanner/printer and let her listen to the machine as I continued scanning things.
I did call the phone company that Monday morning, reported her, and had my phone number changed.
So that’s the background of this particular journal entry, obviously written before I called the phone company.
